The Strangest Thing Men Desire. (And how it can make him crazy for you.)
We all have that one thing that turns us on more than anything else. For some people, it’s a certain type of person, for others, it’s a specific activity. But for many men, the strangest thing they desire is simply to be desired.
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It sounds counter-intuitive, but studies have repeatedly shown that what many men want more than anything is to feel wanted by their partner.
This doesn’t mean that they don’t also want other things – physical intimacy, verbal affirmation, and quality time are all important to most men – but feeling desired is often the key ingredient in making a man feel truly loved.
So how can you make your man feel desired? It’s actually pretty simple: let him know, in both words and actions, that you find him irresistible.
Fulfill his need to prove his worth. Let him become your prince charming.
A man’s need to prove his worth is often misunderstood. Women see it as a need for attention or approval, but it’s really about respect. A man needs to feel respected by his partner in order to feel fulfilled.
Next time your man shuts you out do this
One way to show respect is to let him take the lead occasionally. When you’re out with friends, let him pick the restaurant or activity. This may seem like a small thing, but it means a lot to him.
Another way to show respect is by being honest with him. If you’re unhappy with something he’s done, tell him calmly and respectfully. This will show him that you trust his judgment and that you value his opinion.
Lastly, don’t try to change him. He is who he is and that’s one of the things you fell in love with.
What it means when…a man stops trying.
When a man stops trying, it means that he’s no longer interested in doing things to make you happy. He’s given up on trying to please you and instead is focused on his own needs. This can be frustrating and even scary for women, who often depend on their partner for emotional support.
If your man has suddenly stopped trying, it’s important to communicate with him and try to understand what’s going on. It could be that he’s going through a difficult time and just needs some space. Or, he may be feeling overwhelmed and need your help in getting things back on track. Whatever the reason, stopping communication and connection can only make things worse. Here’s what to do when this happens.
How To Get Inside His Mind
Although it may seem like men and women are from different planets, there are actually some ways to get inside his mind. By understanding how men think, you can not only improve your relationship with your guy but also understand him better. Here are a few tips on how to get inside his mind:
- Pay attention to what he says – and doesn’t say. Men often communicate indirectly, so it’s important to pay attention to both the words he chooses and the way he says them. If you can read between the lines, you’ll have a better understanding of what he’s thinking and feeling.
- Look at his body language. In addition to listening to what he says, pay attention to his body language. Does he make eye contact? What is his posture like? How does he gesture when he talks?
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